As I begin to type our story, Zara’s story; there is still an overwhelming fear of judgement. And yet we know we made the right decision for us, for our family but most importantly for Zara. We never wanted her to feel pain, to suffer or live a limited life. I want to share Zara’s story because although I have found the baby-loss community hugely supportive, TFMR is still a taboo within a taboo.